It's true there is a lot of variation. I've read a couple of posts on AVEN by people who are more comfortable with a desire based definition who have decided to go with that. So it appears there's some discussion happening about how the community defines itself. I'm just wary of imposing. As of right now grey-a seems to be a relatively safe label to adopt for me.
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It's true there is a lot of variation. I've read a couple of posts on AVEN by people who are more comfortable with a desire based definition who have decided to go with that. So it appears there's some discussion happening about how the community defines itself. I'm just wary of imposing. As of right now grey-a seems to be a relatively safe label to adopt for me.