I'd insert the 'subbing is not weakness and also you can be a both a sub and a feminist' speech here but I'm pretty sure you already sing on that choir *g*

Yup! *smiles fondly*
*sends a high five*


What rails me is when there is an automatic assumption that gender = particular attribute/role/behaviour.

Yeah, yeah, agreed.

Ugh, do you mean that that many male doms assume that to be true?
I haven't rea;;y found many BDSM communities (that aren't related to fandom) that I want to participate in, so I don't really know what's going on.