Kink Friending Meme
Sep. 8th, 2013 07:12 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)

I say it's time for a kink-based friending meme. People often travel across fandom and ship lines for a favorite kink. Talking about kinks is such a fun thing to do. Kinks can be so meaningful, deep, can be fun and simple, can bring so much joy. Why not friend based on that?
I hardly know anybody on LJ (though some of the people I know, I care a lot about).
So unless you spread the word, it's just gonna be me and my kinks. Which isn't that bad, actually. Tell everyone! Copy and paste the code in the box under one of the banners to your journal to spread the word. Below are some banners I made. If anybody feels like making better, more inclusive ones (more fandoms, more kinks, more sorts of people), that'd be cool, let me know and I'll add them to this post.
No kink-shaming, please.
And you don't have to feel obligated to answer all the questions.
Questions!
ETA: Hey, I'm having a thought. I'm really enjoying the conversations here. I feel like opening a kink discussion group. For fun discussion of stuff we like, are curious about, getting inspired by other people's kinks, just all sorts of that.
Perhaps open posting as well as having a specific topic or question to play with every week. Is anyone interested?










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Date: 2013-09-08 11:31 pm (UTC)Other places you hang out (DW, Tumblr etc): I'm on DW, Tumblr, and Ao3, annnnd here obviously lol
Activity in fandom? (lurking is an activity): *points* I do that I lurk... and I podfic, and I occassionally write... sometimes... if i can make my brain work like that...
Fandoms, if any: ... there is a list somewhere, I'm all about free love really, if they have hotness, and are sexing I'm there, sometimes even when they aren't hotness and they are sexing i'm there, FREE LOOOOOVVVVEEE... but the big ones are Avengers, HP, Merlin
Ships/gen: I love slash. give me two boys going at in any which way and I'll prolly read/record/swoon over it. *nods*
General interests: general interests outside of fandom??? um, I cross-stitch? I'm trying to learn how to knit, and I'm a full time mom.
Some favorite kinks: I don't have favorites really, seriously the free love thing it's applies to all of this, okay trying to think of kinks... ummmm bondage? ummmmm, orgies? ummm, god this is hard, I seriously will read any kink twice to make sure i enjoy or dislike it I really haven't found anything I wouldn't read soooo... yeah lol
Non-sexual kinks: cuddling!!!!! and I blame
Kink-related LJ activity you like (discussion, reading, writing, drawing, recording etc.): I haven't had much in the discussion way... but I love reading, looking at drawings, RECORDING, and occasionally writing
Guilty (or prideful) pleasure: CROSSOVERS! seriously a guilty pleasure, that leads to like so many new fandoms for me...
What's usually on your journal? Podfics... and the occasional rant
What do you look for in an LJ friend? I just like having people to talk to... I miss having people in fandom to talk to :/
Anything you'd like to add? THIS IS AN AWESOME IDEA AND I HOPE IT GOES WELL!!! ^_^
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Date: 2013-09-09 04:24 pm (UTC)Yay!
And yay to cuddling, too!
I just like having people to talk to... I miss having people in fandom to talk to :/
Ugh. I know what you mean.
THIS IS AN AWESOME IDEA AND I HOPE IT GOES WELL!!! ^_^
<3
Thank you! Me too!