Kink Friending Meme

[citrusjava]

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I say it's time for a kink-based friending meme. People often travel across fandom and ship lines for a favorite kink. Talking about kinks is such a fun thing to do. Kinks can be so meaningful, deep, can be fun and simple, can bring so much joy. Why not friend based on that?

I hardly know anybody on LJ (though some of the people I know, I care a lot about).
So unless you spread the word, it's just gonna be me and my kinks. Which isn't that bad, actually. Tell everyone! Copy and paste the code in the box under one of the banners to your journal to spread the word. Below are some banners I made. If anybody feels like making better, more inclusive ones (more fandoms, more kinks, more sorts of people), that'd be cool, let me know and I'll add them to this post.

No kink-shaming, please.
And you don't have to feel obligated to answer all the questions.

Questions!
<b>General stuff you'd like to share</b> (name, location): <b>Other places you hang out</b> (DW, Tumblr etc): <b>Activity in fandom?</b> (lurking is an activity) <b>Fandoms</b>, if any: <b>Ships/gen</b>: <b>General interests</b>: <b>Some favorite kinks</b>: <b>Non-sexual kinks</b>: <b>Kink-related LJ activity you like</b> (discussion, reading, writing, drawing, recording etc.): <b>Guilty (or prideful) pleasure:</b> <b>What's usually on your journal?</b> <b>What do you look for in an LJ friend?</b> <b>Anything you'd like to add?</b>

ETA: Hey, I'm having a thought. I'm really enjoying the conversations here. I feel like opening a kink discussion group. For fun discussion of stuff we like, are curious about, getting inspired by other people's kinks, just all sorts of that.
Perhaps open posting as well as having a specific topic or question to play with every week. Is anyone interested?











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[theacidqueen.livejournal.com]

General stuff you'd like to share: i'm really just filling this out because it's fun, haha! but if anyone wants to add me based on my answers i'm totally cool with that!
Other places you hang out: pinterest. i used to spend a lot of time on tumblr but i lost interest.
Activity in fandom? i don't know, honestly! i've written a few bleach pornfics for anonymous kink memes, if that counts.

Fandoms: see, when i hear "fandom" i think of severely hardcore fans, and i'm really not like that. i like stuff, but i don't know if i count as a fanperson. i like a lot of manga (and sometimes anime), i guess that might be as close as i get to fandoms lol.
Ships/gen: i'm not much of a shipper!
General interests: fun, adventure, driving, yoga, archery, sewing, art, writing, cartoons, dogs, bugs, food, weird & creepy stuff.

Some favorite kinks: i'm pretty open, and generally i'll go with the flow lol. i do particularly enjoy: hot wax, pretending to be gay men (i'm a lesbian), various forms of roleplay, toys are fun. things i haven't done but am quite interested in: bondage, sex with 3+ participants.
Non-sexual kinks: hmmm musical innuendo? like when someone gets turned on by someone playing a musical instrument, because they've got limber fingers and passion, ya know? dirty bare feet. brushing/braiding hair. glasses. spooning. are these really nonsexual? haha sometimes it's a close call.
Kink-related LJ activity you like: anonymous kink memes.
Guilty (or prideful) pleasure: anonymous kink memes. haha sorry for repetitivity!

What's usually on your journal? stuff about my life. stuff about my perception of the universe. pictures. nonsexual memes.
What do you look for in an LJ friend? fun people, weird people, awesome people, friendly people.
Anything you'd like to add? hey new friend citrusjava!

[theacidqueen.livejournal.com]

ahaha i'll just add that i based some of my answers more on reality and not fiction, if that isn't obvious hahaha. when reading/writing stuff i guess i don't have preferences. i should've added up there somewhere that i like anon kink memes because i can just read the prompts and pick what i wanna read/write.

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

I *love* that you did that.
For m, there's a lot of correlation between what I like in fic and in RL, though I haven't tried all the things I like in fic (there's PLENTY), and in real life I'm more concerned about safety and consent.

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

pretending to be gay men
YES.

glasses

How could I have forgotten glasses?!

are these really nonsexual? haha sometimes it's a close call.


I often feel that way too :)

*waves back* Hey!

[theacidqueen.livejournal.com]

it's funny how glasses can be sexy, hahaha. i don't require glasses, but i like to wear them sometimes because i love how it feels when someone takes them off my face.

also i love the way they look on other people, ghaaaa.

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

I like your reason. Also - yup.