Kink Friending Meme

[citrusjava]

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I say it's time for a kink-based friending meme. People often travel across fandom and ship lines for a favorite kink. Talking about kinks is such a fun thing to do. Kinks can be so meaningful, deep, can be fun and simple, can bring so much joy. Why not friend based on that?

I hardly know anybody on LJ (though some of the people I know, I care a lot about).
So unless you spread the word, it's just gonna be me and my kinks. Which isn't that bad, actually. Tell everyone! Copy and paste the code in the box under one of the banners to your journal to spread the word. Below are some banners I made. If anybody feels like making better, more inclusive ones (more fandoms, more kinks, more sorts of people), that'd be cool, let me know and I'll add them to this post.

No kink-shaming, please.
And you don't have to feel obligated to answer all the questions.

Questions!
<b>General stuff you'd like to share</b> (name, location): <b>Other places you hang out</b> (DW, Tumblr etc): <b>Activity in fandom?</b> (lurking is an activity) <b>Fandoms</b>, if any: <b>Ships/gen</b>: <b>General interests</b>: <b>Some favorite kinks</b>: <b>Non-sexual kinks</b>: <b>Kink-related LJ activity you like</b> (discussion, reading, writing, drawing, recording etc.): <b>Guilty (or prideful) pleasure:</b> <b>What's usually on your journal?</b> <b>What do you look for in an LJ friend?</b> <b>Anything you'd like to add?</b>

ETA: Hey, I'm having a thought. I'm really enjoying the conversations here. I feel like opening a kink discussion group. For fun discussion of stuff we like, are curious about, getting inspired by other people's kinks, just all sorts of that.
Perhaps open posting as well as having a specific topic or question to play with every week. Is anyone interested?











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[big-heart-june.livejournal.com]

Other places you hang out (DW, Tumblr etc): LJ only really. I do have twitter and facebook but hardly ever use them.
Activity in fandom? (lurking is an activity): Fandom is my HAPPPPY place and I'm very active with (daily) posting and commenting.
Fandoms, if any: SUPERNATURAL & SUPERNATURAL RPF.
Ships/gen: Dean/Sam, Jared/Jensen, Jensen/JDM, Dean/Benny, Dean/Lisa -- Sam/Dean and the Js are my main OTP though.
General interests: Music, swimming, my tv shows, my volunteer work, hanging out with the g-friends, theatre and movies.
Some favorite kinks: Hoooo boy! here goes, lol: Slash all the way, J2 or Wincest powerplay, threesomes, fingering, coming untouched, barebacking, a/b/o, knotting, shotgunning, nippleplay, feminization, double penetration, somnophilia, size kink, lap sex, face-fucking, rimming, fingering, MANHANDLING, hair pulling, underage, age difference, fucked up power dynamics of any sort (doctor/patient, teacher/student, mob-boss/consort etc.), prison!fic, dark!fic, pornstar!fic, mafia!fic, rough sex, first time sex, creature!fic, competence!porn, tattoos, DIRTY TALK, feral boys, asshole!jensen, codependant fucked-up-ness, enthusiastic messy bjs, facefucking, shaving, gagging/choking on cock, dubcon, rape fantasy roleplay, ballplay, ponyplay, puppyplay, gum smacking! I totally blame my girl M for this! lol :P
Non-sexual kinks: ICE CREAM, Indian food and mango lassies.
Kink-related LJ activity you like (discussion, reading, writing, drawing, recording etc.): Reading and a bit of discussion.
Guilty (or prideful) pleasure: mpreg.
What's usually on your journal? Mostly Dean and Sam and Jensen and Jared gif/picspams, bts/on set gif/picspams, fic recs, porny m/m gif/picspams, episode reactions, random (rl) stuff.
What do you look for in an LJ friend? Someone who posts and comments, I really enjoy an active LJ friend! Also, FUN, open-minded, compassionate, and caring people. And folks who are just as craaazy passionate abt my fandom (and my filthy mind lol :P) as I am!
Anything you'd like to add? I absolutely hate (fandom) wank of any kind, please don't bring that into my journal.

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

*awesome* list!
coming untouched, dirty talk, hair pulling, enthusiastic messy bjs yay !

What's competence!porn (if you feel like explaining)?

[big-heart-june.livejournal.com]

:DD ♥

I find competent, knowledgeable and intelligent people extremely sexy in fic and in RL!

Also! HAPPPPPY BIRTHDAY!

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

Hee! Thank you!!


I find competent, knowledgeable and intelligent people extremely sexy in fic and in RL!

Ooh, yeah, definitely. And I get why you like J2 and Dean and Sam. Thanks for the explanation!

[meesasometimes.livejournal.com]

I had to google the mango lassie, turns out it is NOT a bright orange fruity collie dog. :P I want to know more about this mango lassie kink you have, it's suddenly like I hardly know you lol

gagging/choking on cock ...hell yeah, I should have put that on my list XD I just try to weed people by throwing ponyplay out first :P

gum smacking! I totally blame my girl M for this! *innocent eyes*

just so you know girl, I'm REALLY passionate about your filthy mind<3

[big-heart-june.livejournal.com]

they're just like porn.... :P my favourite Indian place makes THE BEST ones. Come visit and I'll take you there.

WHERE IS ALL THE PONYPLAY??? people do not write it anymore *sadface*

You're just my best girl and I ♥ you madly ♥

ALSO, you absolutely HAVE to devour everthing dishonestdreams, where were you when I reccd her and her amazing fic??? :P her Black Cartel verse is RIDICULOUS!