Triggers

[citrusjava]

My main triggers - death, illness, choking, animals suffering. Please don't talk to me about those if possible, and not about talking/not talking about those, either. Thank you!

ETA: Discussion of health/dieting/fitness/"health" is a bad for me, and discussion of religion or anti-religion
is not a trigger, but super uncomfortable.

Comments

[mystereos.livejournal.com]

Hi

I have a question about your triggers (it's just to do with figuring out what kind of stuff you need cuts for). Would it be ok to ask that, and is there a way I could do so that wouldn't hurt or trigger you in the asking?

-Etaine

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

You are so so sweet, both for caring and for being this understanding and respectful - I apreciate that a lot !

There isn't really a way around it, probably, but it's worth it -please ask!

[mystereos.livejournal.com]

Hey there

We were just thinking about your illness triggers, you see. If we're going to have a real proper rant about a health issue, we always use a cut with an explanation of why. But in our daily posts we do tend to make reference to our energy levels, and things like feeling a bit "blah", or tired or achey, or sometimes our cognitive issues. It's nothing grapic or detailed, but I guess we just wanted to warn you / check how that would be for you.

-Tristan

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

Hey Tristan, thank you so much for asking.... i am so sorry, but that would definitely be triggerly for me, I have problems with people mentioning colds or headaches, anything like that, really (more or less)....
if that is something you are not up to dealing with, I definitely understand, yeas.

[mystereos.livejournal.com]

Thanks for getting back to me, I appreciate it!

We'll do our best to remember, but I can't honestly promise we'll cut every instance, as those issues are so much a part of our daily life that we often mention them without thinking. I do understand if you feel you can't read because of that.

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

Thank you for warning. and for trying!
Let's try? Though if that does tend to happen I will have to unfollow, that is not something I can afford to go through, sorry.

[mystereos.livejournal.com]

Hey,

I think it's great that you're willing to try as we're enjoying getting to know you! We'll see how it goes and if you need to stop reading us, that's ok, it happens.

Tristan

[mystereos.livejournal.com]

Oh, I just thought! Don't read our weekly wrap up posts, ok? They have a "health" section. They're long posts, so they're always cut.

-Tris

[citrusjava.livejournal.com]

Thank you!